"bob and john" (bobandjohn)
10/24/2016 at 20:19 • Filed to: None
0
11|
"bob and john" (bobandjohn)
10/24/2016 at 20:19 • Filed to: None | 0
| 11 |
Dad is back in the ICU.
3 mid terms next week. 2 of which I am totally unprepared for and i cant seem to learn anything.
*sigh* and it was all going so well last week.
I’m just going to go and crawl into a corner and drink myself to sleep. fuck all of this.
DipodomysDeserti
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 20:34 |
|
Hang in there, bud.
RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 20:34 |
|
Sorry to hear bud...my sincere hope it works out for all of you! :(
BorkBorkBjork
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 20:35 |
|
Sorry to hear, I wish you and your father the best.
As for the midterms, try notecards. It sound stupendously simple, but it worked well for me. Keep going through the deck, and remove any card you memorize (that forces your brain to dedicate more attempts to more difficult subjects). Reshuffle all your cards every hour or so, just to make sure you retain what you learn.
JGrabowMSt
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 20:37 |
|
Dont dig yourself deep. Distract yourself cleaning a bike, dont wallow in anything. You need to be in good shape.
After the first trip to the hospital, did your dad go onto any medications? My girlfriends dad is recovering from major heart surgery, I have a good idea of what youre going through.
Drinking yourself into a hole is not where you should be.
My citroen won't start
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 20:38 |
|
Hey, take some time for yourself, go for a ride, smoke a cigarette, clean your bike, whatever.
When things get tough we seem to focus on everything but of our mental health.
Spaceball-Two
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 20:42 |
|
Stay strong man.
|
bob and john
> JGrabowMSt
10/24/2016 at 20:43 |
|
he did. But they wouldnt tell me what. I had to call the doctor myself to find out how bad it really was to begin with.
shop-teacher
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 21:11 |
|
I’m really sorry to hear that. Go for a long walk instead of crawling in that hole. Hang in there man!
71MGBGT Likes Subarus of Unusual Colors
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 21:23 |
|
I’m so sorry to hear that, I wish you all the best. My dad was in the hospital due to traumatic injury a little while ago so I know my previous statement doesn’t mean shit. Stay strong friend, you’ll make it through this. I know how much it hurts and that every day feels like a damn eternity but the days do in fact pass and that it doesn’t have to ruin your life.
|
JGrabowMSt
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 21:26 |
|
Have your parents write out a log book for your dad moving forward. Everything he eats, everything he takes, how he feels afterwards, an hour after, if he ever feels funny at some point after. It helps narrow down if the medications are working for him.
Sounds silly, but it’s the most important thing he could do.
TheRealBicycleBuck
> bob and john
10/24/2016 at 21:41 |
|
If things get really bad, you have the option to drop your courses for the semester. Different schools have different names for it, but most call it withdrawal due to hardship and it won’t count against you. However, don’t just stop going to school. Talk to your school advisor and let him/her know what is going on.
Prayers for you and your dad.